Why is Sex So intimate beyond just it being “Sex”
If you can answer some of these questions with Yes and you've been intimate with them You are probably a victim of Sex Magick.
- After getting intimate with him/her a few times, you feel like you are lowkey obsessed. Example: you start to become very possessive and you think about them more often than before.
- If during intercourse they tell you “who does that belong to” they performed a sex magick act.
- After a breakup, you feel so empty and soulless, not that you're not going to feel like that but you feel much stronger. You'll know what I'm talking about as I explain more.
- Talking you through it, looking in your eyes/ taking photos and videos.
- After being intimate, you are drained and they are very energized.
- I could go on but I'm going to explain it more.
I am a virgin and I haven't experienced the act of sex, but I have heard all sorts of situationships throughout my lifetime. But let's first talk about the history of Sex Magick and what it is in modern times. Sex Magick is a spiritual or ritual practice that involves using sexual energy to manifest desires, achieve goals, or attain spiritual enlightenment. In simple terms, it's about channeling the power of sexual energy to make things happen or to connect with higher states of consciousness.
In the book Magia Sexualis published by University of California Press, it explores the history of sexual magic in the West over the last 150 years. It shows how sexual magic went from being seen as something scary and rebellious to being viewed as a way to empower people and promote freedom. The author talks about important people like Paschal Beverly Randolph and Aleister Crowley and explains how sexual magic combined old Western traditions like Gnosticism with Eastern practices like Tantra. The book also explores how sexual magic connects to modern issues like birth control, views on sexual behavior, homosexuality, feminism, and how we see sexuality today in our modern world.
Now we know a bit of history, there are plenty of religions that use it. I will start to talk about what my family members experienced and also other stories I've heard. So in Mexico many people use Sex Magick and participate in Santeria. This religion originally formed in Cuba and then spread; this religion isn't bad, no religion is bad, the people who participate and their intentions are what could be bad.
I say this because one of my uncles has an ex-wife. He found out that she was putting period blood in his food and was doing all sorts of weird things. He even said that they engaged in period sex. It is commonly known that blood in a ritual is seen as a life form, now period sex coming from a divine feminine energy represents fertility meaning new beginnings. As I said, Sex Magick can be used for good like the Pagans use it for a deeper connection with their partner. In this case, my then aunt was using it to make my uncle feel like he couldn't be without her. Of course, they took him to get himself cleansed, but he was acting very out of character and was very aggressive to his family. I'm not excusing his behavior, but he was acting out of character.
Other examples of this are talking you through it, as having sex is an exchange of energies. You should be very careful and picky with your sex partners. Think about the act of sex itself; you are trusting this person with your body, and you both are at your vulnerable state. You open yourself to them and them to you. Think about the positions you do; it's tied to Buddhism and yoga. I could get into the darkness of Yoga too but that's for another time. Both of you are sweating, skin to skin, huffing and puffing… you get the idea. Essentially, that person could be intentionally wanting to drain and suck the energy out of you. As they look in your eyes, they could be saying in their head “don't ever leave me or become obsessed with me.” Whatever they can say, and it will work because why? SEX SELLS. Look around you, even in the industry you see all these sex orgies and horror stories about Diddy parties and freaky freak offs. All these sex rituals can make your favorite celebrities climb up the ladder to fame. This is why you should never be jealous of celebrities and desire what they have. You don’t know what they had to do to get to where they are right now. Unless you are one of those people who doesn't care and has no morals, GO FOR IT! But don't be surprised when you feel soulless and feel like there's no worth in living.
I could get into the Warlocks and Jezebel Spirits but that's for another time. I want to focus on Soul Ties and Sex Magick. To me, body count matters. Knowing your partner's past is important, and watch how they talk about their exes. Trauma is understandable, but everyone should take responsibility for their part in past relationships.
While there are negative aspects, you can use these concepts for good. Masturbation can be used to manifest things. At climax, focus on your intention and release that energy into the universe. I don't practice this due to my belief in Karma and personal discomfort. If you do, make sure your intentions are positive.
The Kama Sutra teaches that sex can lead to spiritual enlightenment. However, be wary of those who might use these practices for manipulation.
Enjoy sex with a trusted, loving partner who wants the best for you. Avoid casual hookups if you get attached easily, as it can lead to suffering. Protect your energy and respect your body. Save your energy for someone deserving, and always proceed with caution.
Take care of your one body and do what feels right for you.